LifeHaven, a Twin Cities Metro Youth Homelessness Program of Lutheran Social Service of Minnesota, provides housing and support to single youth ages 16 and 17, who are pregnant or parenting.

Donation Opportunities

LifeHaven is always preparing for new youth to move to the house and supplies are in great need. Items with * are of greatest need. Providing gift cards instead of purchasing individual items, is a helpful option also. Call Khaliya Dorry to coordinate a drop off time during weekdays at 612-346-1323 or call the LifeHaven office during the weekend or evenings to coordinate a drop off time 651-776-9805 . Only new items may be accepted by LifeHaven.

Youth Hygiene Items 

Shampoo and Conditioner (both for Black-natural hair + non-Black hair)

Styling Products (both for Black-natural hair + non-Black hair) hair spray, leave-in-conditioner, hair oil

*Combs + Brushes (variety of styles and sizes)

Rubber bands

Hair ties

Bobby pins

Hair clips


*Shaving Cream

*Body Wash

Baby Supplies

*Baby toys (3-12 months)

*Children’s books with diverse characters

*Diapers sizes 3+ and Wipes (Pampers, Huggies and Honest Brand preferred for both)

*Children’s clothing (sizes newborn-3T, but no winter jackets)

Formula: Similac Alimentum, Similac Advance, Enfamil Nutrimagen, Gerber Goodstart Soothepro),

Baby Shampoo

Baby Lotion

*Hooded Towels


Financial donations to support LifeHaven are also very helpful. To financially donate, use Incarnation’s secured site or write a check to Incarnation with “LifeHaven” in the memo, sending to the Incarnation office.

Provide a Meal

Typically, volunteers are needed to provide a Sunday meal for the residents of LifeHaven and during the rest of the week, youth schedule themselves to prepare a meal for the entire household. However, due to the pandemic, LifeHaven youth are not cooking meals for their housemates in order to decrease exposure to one another. If you’d like to provide a weekday or Sunday meal for the youth of LifeHaven, contact Khaliya Dorry 612-346-1323.

In either case, please plan to prepare or procure enough food for 8 adults and deliver the meal to LifeHaven by first coordinating with Khaliya so your gracious gift of a meal may be obtained in a no-touch fashion. For reference, meal ideas and guidelines for providing meals can be found here.

Volunteering at LifeHaven

Normally, volunteers are an important part of the LifeHaven community; however while COVID-19 continues to be a concern, volunteers are currently welcomed for non-direct service opportunities. 

Typically these are the type of volunteer opportunities available to support LifeHaven. It’s our hope and plan that over time LifeHaven will again be able to use volunteers with varying levels of involvement with the youth, their children and varying time commitments. Direct service opportunities require volunteer training and screening. Please check back to see what new volunteer opportunities might be available. If you are interested in being contacted about new volunteer opportunities once the pandemic is no longer a concern, contact Becky Benson.

Ongoing Individual Direct Service Positions

Includes child care, driving for Girls’ Night Out, baking cookies or serving as a group leader for an activity of your choice. These positions require volunteer training and background screening.

Child Care
Provide child care while youth and moms are in group meetings, independent living skills groups, parenting skills groups and Girls’ Night In/Out. Volunteers can be scheduled weekly or monthly or every other month. Child care is needed every Thursday 6 – 8 p.m. and twice per month for Girls’ Night In/Out which usually happens on the 1st and 3rd Tuesday evening of each month. A role description for this service opportunity can be found here.

Girls’ Night Out Driver
Provide transportation for the moms to get out and have some fun! Girls’ Night Out is a time when the moms go out with staff and volunteers for some fun (dinner, movie, etc) without their children. Girls’ Night Out happens once per month, usually on 3rd Tuesday of every month from 6 – 10 p.m.

Additional Individual Indirect Service Positions

Includes making providing a Sunday night dinner, coordinating a donation drive, sponsoring a youth during the holidays, and opportunities for small groups.

Donation Drive Coordinator
Coordinate a donation drive within your community (work, school, small group at church, etc.) collecting much-needed items for the moms and children at LifeHaven. Donation lists are available in Incarnation’s Atrium by the LifeHaven bulletin board.

Holiday Gift Drive
Shop for and donate gifts based on youth’s holiday wish lists. Pick a gift tag off the LifeHaven Holiday Giving House at Incarnation during the Alternative Giving Season.

Small Group Projects
Occasionally there is a need for a small group to complete a project at or for LifeHaven. Most projects involve cleaning, painting, and building/grounds maintenance. Eagle Scout projects have also been done at LifeHaven.

On Call Individual Direct Service Positions

Includes presenting about independent learning skills, providing professional services, helping to maintain the LifeHaven facility or working on a moving crew. These positions require volunteer training and screening.

On-Call Independent Living Skills Guest Presenter
Come in and share your skills and expertise with our youth! Do you know about financial management, employment skills/services, health/nutrition, education/college admission, voting/civic engagement, tenant rights and responsibilities, chemical health/substance abuse, domestic violence or STD/HIV prevention, etc. Be on call to come in and present during one of our independent living skills groups.

On-Call Maintenance Crew
Help keep LifeHaven in good working order. Be on call to come in and do repairs as needed. Must have an email address.

On-Call Driving Crew
In many cases programs deal with large donations and moving youth into apartments. We are looking for a pool of individuals who would be willing to help move donations and youth’s belonging and to assist with other occasional transportation needs of youth participating in LSS Youths Programs.

On-Call Job Shadowing
Are you willing to talk with one of our moms about your job or even let them shadow you on the job? We welcome volunteers with all types of jobs, especially in the legal and health (nursing, dental, and vet techs) fields.

About LifeHaven

The LifeHaven program and home can provide services and shelter for as many as six moms and their children at a time. The team of dedicated staff and volunteers at LifeHaven support young moms and their children as they transition from homelessness to housing stability, work toward achieving their goals, and create lasting change in their lives and communities.

All moms living at LifeHaven attend high school full time during the day and receive supportive services from LifeHaven staff before and after school and on the weekends, including case management, advocacy, and independent living skills education. They also receive education and support as they work to strengthen parenting skills. Since 2003, Incarnation partnered with LifeHaven under the Families in Transition umbrella. As a partner in this project, Incarnation provides financial, in-kind donation and volunteer support.

LifeHaven is located at 325 Jenks Avenue, near I-35E and Maryland Avenue in St. Paul. For directions, contact the Incarnation office at 651-484-7213.

Questions about LifeHaven? Contact Becky Benson.